Q&A's

I was gonna do an audio post for this but opted to write a post since I didn’t get that many questions. All the easier. Before u continue please check out my blog http://thecounselorandherthots.blogspot.com/

Scarlet asked: what would be ur ideal career/work?
Oh waow. Right now my career/job is one thing that concerns me the most. I had big dreams and hopes for my career. This might sound silly but I feel my career is one majour thing that defines me so I still have hopes. The only thing is that the older I get without getting there- the harder it’ll become eventually. So my ideal place I’d like to be in my career is a managerial Finance role where I’ll have analysts under me doing all the nitty gritty analysis for each product/sector/area etc while I’ll overlook the overall picture. I’d love to work for a company like UBS where I can work from home when need be. Work from any UBS office world wide.


Trybes asked: Have you ever been in a long distance relationship and can you be in one? No, I have never been in a long distance relationship and even though I’d rather not be in one, if it’s the right person then I’ll do it.
Secondly, what would you consider to be your weakness
My weakness will have to be me being impatient and not very tolerant.
and lastly how do you define an ideal man, ideal marriage and an ideal home.
Ideal man/marriage/home? That’s difficult to answer jare. Man- someone stress free, not selfish, understanding, God fearing, loves God, loves me etc. Marriage- someone who understands it takes a lot of work from both parties to make it work and with the help of God. Home- peaceful place to come home to where good conflict resolution exists.


Buttercup asked: *What is your greatest accomplishment so far or what do you hope to be your greatest accomplishment?
My greatest accomplishment so far is being strong enough to move to a new continent without help/family/friends and settle in literally by myself. Most people who moved to the US had somewhere to stay or room&board were paid for by their sponsors. I paid rent the night I landed in this country and have been doing so since then (changed to mortgage).

You've lived in both the UK and the States for quite a while, no? Which of the accents do you have?
I actually mainly have a Naija accent- I reckon. I kinda have my own accent going on Naija/Jand/Yankee- check it out The other woman and your husband: My take Pt2 (Audio post)
Which blogger would you like to meet the most and why?
Which blogger I’d like to meet? Emmm….. that’s a tough one. But I shall be partial and say Dante. Why? No particular reason. Dante is really sweet and pleasant. Guys tend to ‘demo’ and be full of shit but he doesn’t seem to chat smack and is genuinely pleasant. Plus I know when he sees me he’ll want to marry me. Hehehehe. I’ve started learning Igbo o.


Cici asked: Do u have any siblings? If yes how many and what position are u?
Yes I do have a sibling and also siblings (depending on who i'm talking to). I have a younger brother. Pretty cool dude. Lol!! Then again I have 3 sisters (17,16, and 7) but I don’t know them. They are my dad’s kids. I’m the first born, the first grandchild (from my mother’s side) and the only female child.

Kunte asked: how do you like to be kissed? What’s your sensitive spot? What’s your perfect weekend like?
Na wa for dese questions o! I shall try my best to answer. I’d liked to be kissed nicely? Sensitive spot- that’s rather vague cos I don’t have A sensitive spot so I’ll say my ears? Perfect weekend? Eemmm….. BBQ with friends and family, and a night out with my girls.

MyneWhitman asked: why did you leave chi-town?
I left because of work. My contract ended and a position opened here in NJ.

Shona asked: If you were going to be stuck on a deserted island, which 5 books, movies, people and foods would you take?
5 books- My Bible, Our Daily Manner, Karmasutra book, a glossy mag, I can't pick one of the good books i've read
5 movies- LOTR part1, Transformers, I can do all bad by myself, Slumdog M, Shrek
5 people- My brother, a babe for him, Djimon Hounsu (for me), my friend Ted, and a babe for him. U didn’t ask why, so….
5 foods- Plantain DEFINITE!!! Tomato, pepper, corn, beans

Would you ever merge this blog with the Counsellor Blog? (U know that's my fave blog of urs right?)
No I will never merge this blog with the Counsellor blog. That too is my favourite blog and it’s where I say/talk about serious stuff. Tigeress blog sha….lol!! I call it my play play blog.

U've now met some bloggers in person..who's the coolest?..sorry I know the answer to this one! Of course the coolest is me!
Ah-hem, sweetie we actually haven’t met in person. So u don’t count. Hehehehe. Coolest? Eemmm…..I would have said Vera but that girl is a thunder stealer jare. So I reckon all the bloggers (StandTall, Parakeet, Bunmight, Vera) are all cool peeps. Now if u ask which blogger I get along with the most or has become a good friend- then that would have to be you Ms. Shona.

Whats the one song no matter what mood you're in is set to bring a smile or a hint of a smile to your face?
Oooh, I have a few. But my all time favourite is Ain’t Nobody by Faith Evans. Have u listened to the words to that song?